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You are on the website of a realdoll named Elle. She is a life size mannequin done with a silicone near to human skin and with a skeleton allowing her to take realistic poses... more

 
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"Lovedolls are a waste of time, it would be better to live the real life"

 

But what defines the real life ?? Is the simple fact that we experiment a relationship with an object, that would banish this experience from the "real life" realm ? Only the experiences between two persons are worth to be lived ? Is the time passed to do that which should be limited else the experience is banished from Real Life ?

If YES then every experiences of a contemplative (or participating with an object) human being with objects are a waste of time : looking at an old master, a sculpture or every works of art, making a furniture, dolling up a car, programming a computer... Hopefully, all these activities allow to feel fulfilled for some, and are a waste of time for others.

Maybe it's because the doll is only a clone of something alive : a woman ; that this activity would be devoid of interest ?

If YES then all the human activities where we replace the living with objects should be ban of our schedule. It's a long list and everyone can recognize himself on a day to day basis. So i promise to stop using all these objects which are a real progress in my life ! Remind me to throw away the artificial flowers that my old aunt offered to me, and now i will only use medicinal plants (obviously gathered soon in the morning and covered with pinkish) Chemistry's progress can't be good for my body ...

Maybe the doll's spare time is taboo because this activity include the SEX realm ?

The sexual behaviours allowed in our societies (judaeo-christian) are particulary stereotyped and the misbehaviours are severely pointed at and are marginalized. For example homosexuality is still and often teased even if everybody (almost) try to publicly accept homosexuality because they appear as open minded. Another example : difference of ages between man and woman in a relationship : there are some allowed gaps, some tolerable gaps, but over 15 years it's intolerable, criticized and this relationship should not exist, especially if the woman is the oldest !

But there still are activities between human beings... When i think that some guys or girls who are 50 or 60 years old have homosexual activities with silicone dolls who are 20 years old !!

More seriously i think that's presomptuous to describe what can help or relieve others ; especially if we model ourself on analysing other's experiences. What is a waste of time for one, is a fulfillment for other. Each experience where one and only one human being is getting involved is a fully-fledged experience about Real Life, even if the human being interacts with an object, or another alive animal from his kingdom or not, a stone or a tree.

Are we so learned to maintain that two stones side by side, do not live a Real Life's experiment each other :) ?