But what defines the real life ?? Is the simple fact
that we experiment a relationship with an object, that
would banish this experience from the "real life"
realm ? Only the experiences between two persons are
worth to be lived ? Is the time passed to do that which
should be limited else the experience is banished from
Real Life ?
If YES then every experiences of a contemplative (or
participating with an object) human being with objects
are a waste of time : looking at an old master, a sculpture
or every works of art, making a furniture, dolling up
a car, programming a computer... Hopefully, all these
activities allow to feel fulfilled for some, and are
a waste of time for others.
Maybe it's because the doll is only a clone of something
alive : a woman ; that this activity would be devoid
of interest ?
If YES then all the human activities where we replace
the living with objects should be ban of our schedule.
It's a long list and everyone can recognize himself
on a day to day basis. So i promise to stop using all
these objects which are a real progress in my life !
Remind me to throw away the artificial flowers that
my old aunt offered to me, and now i will only use medicinal
plants (obviously gathered soon in the morning and covered
with pinkish) Chemistry's progress can't be good for
my body ...
Maybe the doll's spare time is taboo because this activity
include the SEX realm ?
The sexual behaviours allowed in our societies (judaeo-christian)
are particulary stereotyped and the misbehaviours are
severely pointed at and are marginalized. For example
homosexuality is still and often teased even if everybody
(almost) try to publicly accept homosexuality because
they appear as open minded. Another example : difference
of ages between man and woman in a relationship : there
are some allowed gaps, some tolerable gaps, but over
15 years it's intolerable, criticized and this relationship
should not exist, especially if the woman is the oldest
!
But there still are activities between human beings...
When i think that some guys or girls who are 50 or 60
years old have homosexual activities with silicone dolls
who are 20 years old !!
More seriously i think that's presomptuous to describe
what can help or relieve others ; especially if we model
ourself on analysing other's experiences. What is a
waste of time for one, is a fulfillment for other. Each
experience where one and only one human being
is getting involved is a fully-fledged experience about
Real Life, even if the human being interacts with an
object, or another alive animal from his kingdom or
not, a stone or a tree.
Are we so learned to maintain that two stones side
by side, do not live a Real Life's experiment each other
:) ?