Yes, i've read this sentence several times on Blogs
or as a comment of articles about realistic lovedolls.
This is a harsh and final thought but i don't sentence
its authors because this is a so human reaction.
If we analyse the sentence, we can notice that :
- "THEY" aim at perverse persons, from whom
the authors feel completely different, "THEY"
don't belong to the world of normal peoples.
- "IT'S BETTER" : Lovedoll's owners are categorized
like impulsive fuckers, uncontrolled and rowdy, their
genital parts obviously dominate their brain, so they
are dangerous as potential sexual attackers and "IT'S
BETTER" they do that with dolls than attacking
some innocent victims among fellow women.
Well, well... Difficult to argue against that... Rather
against such a way of thinking which resumes to : THEY
are different from ME, i don't understand and don't know
their choices, so their are inevitably bad and potentially
harmful.
Brief this is a way of thinking firmly rooted in human
being, which acts ruthlessly on Earth since the world
is world : normality is ME, the other one is inevitably
strange.
So rest assured, you the reader who discovers us :
the community of lovedoll's owners is enough big so
that we are perfectly representative of the population
who don't own a lovedoll. For the persons themselves
as much as for their motivations to own a lovedoll,
they are many and different. Sexuality is obviously
concerned but nothing presages for a perverse sexuality.
My remarks are based on 2 years since i belong to the
lovedollers community (a majority of men). They are
on the Internet where they write, share a lot of thoughts.
My remark are also based on 20 years of adult life,
mixing with friends, colleagues, brief you readers !
I mixed with different professional environments where
i was especially outraged by some behaviours, words
and awaitings that some guys expected from the women
in general. This is not still the case in the doll's
lovers community.
The motivation for a lovedoll's purchase is not to
buy an easy victim of illconsidered and sexual excesses,
anyway i've rarely seen or read something about that.
On the contrary i often noticed that lovedoll's owners
have much respect and admiration for the woman, and
they apply this way of thinking to their relationship
with the doll(s).
I'm not an expert with the motivations of the men who
are capable of raping a girl, but i can imagine that
sexual urges is not only the main motivation (this urge
can easily be solved by their hand, a lovedoll, a prostitute.
I can imagine these rapists want to degrade, to demean
the other one ; they want to exert pressure on someone
by force ; they want to compel a human being... A rapist
would not be satisfyed with a lovedoll, she is completely
docile, no resistance nor human interaction.
I hope these few remarks will help the readers who
were ok with the title of this article, to reconsider
their opinion and to take a fresh look at lovedoll's
owners.
